The idea of combining business ownership with fatherhood can be intimidating, but dads everywhere are making it work. How? To celebrate Fathers' Day this year, we put out a call to Papa-preneurs of all types to come forward and tell us their stories, share their experiences, and enlighten us with all their favorite eCommerce tips. We have to say we received some great responses from successful dads eager to share with us — and with you!
Several hard-working dads chimed in with actionable strategies and advice to help guide aspiring Papa-preneurs (and Mom-preneurs too) toward success in both family and business. If you're seeking great tips on balancing business with parenthood, this article is for you. Let's see what the experts have to say!
As the Founder and CEO of Gozney, this was my same experience. After my first son was born, I found that balancing both duties continues to be a daily challenge. However, I’ve managed to make some improvements because the idea of missing my son’s first steps are more important to me than sending an e-mail on time.
Two tips I have for other entrepreneur fathers are:
Check out pictures of my baby and me here to show that, no matter what, you can have your company and your family too."
Sure, I can’t wait to put him down to bed sometimes, but don’t we all? It’s at that point I can grab the phone again and go back to being an online business owner."
I run into issues sometimes when it comes to my sons and running my business from my house. Sometimes they are just being kids when I’m trying to record a video for YouTube or when I’m on a call. I’ve had to edit out laughter from when I’m recording a video on a serious topic. I have had to apologize to clients when an epic battle of 'nu uh' versus 'uh huh' was raging as my sons ran by.
My advice to fathers who want to be entrepreneurs is to manage your time well. Get up early if you can and get as much work done before your kids get up. Don’t just schedule time to work but also time to be dad to your children. Adhere to that schedule just as seriously as your work schedule.
Remind yourself that a large factor in you wanting to run your own business was the freedom it could bring you and that likely meant more family time. Don’t dismiss that to 'someday.' Prioritize it now.
Also, remember that your house is still their home even if it has also become your home office. Your children should feel peace, warmth, and comfort in their home so do your best to be patient and gracious with them. That is something you won’t regret."
My business focuses on 'motivated seller' lead generation, and a substantial part of it is online. I have a website and I’ve done a lot of work on SEO and I’ve hired an SEO expert as well to consult on my website to improve my rankings. I get responses and forward them to my partner who goes out and looks at the properties.
In terms of balance, it’s not difficult to accomplish. Because it’s online I can work on it late in the evening or a bit on weekends when we aren’t having family time. I can forward the email responses to my partner from my phone which is obviously pretty easy. I get phone calls as well and I take them when I can or return them later. Thankfully I don’t have an issue with balance.
I highly recommend this type of business — it’s lucrative and it can be done 'off hours.' It does take work and a lot of study on marketing, but it’s worth it. As with most things, to get started with it I’d also recommend massive action because that’s what generates results. That part takes a good amount of time and balance but once it’s done it doesn’t take a lot of care and feeding."
With my own online business, I still work just as many hours as I used to, but I get to pick when they are. I like to get up early and work a few hours before my daughter gets up, and then I get to have breakfast with her. I work during her naps and after she goes to bed at night, allowing me to go to the park with her in the afternoon or make dinner with her."
"Here are a few tips to consider for fathers wanting to start their own online business:
In the end, I treasure the time I get to see my daughter every day. I’ll never get these moments back, and I know I’ll look back on it as a great decision in my life."
My advice to papa-preneurs is that kids are a great audience for an elevator speech. Can they understand what you are working on? My kindergarten and preschool-aged kids definitely understand what vitamins are because they take them every day. When I say that dad runs a vitamin company, they get it. When I ask them, 'would you like vitamins that are made for you or made for everybody (or all girls)?' They, of course, say they want vitamins made for them. My prior career in management consulting was confusing to my young daughters. I know that I'm on the right track when my kids show a spark of excitement and understanding at my profession — it demonstrates simplicity and primacy of purpose when even young kids can relate to your mission."
Being a parent has also forced me to maximize my time. For example, when our baby wakes up in the middle of the night to nurse, that's my cue to bust out my laptop and get some work done. It's this kind of time-maximizing 'no minutes left behind' mentality that you need to be on top of your game both as a parent and as an online business owner.
I think that being a father will help me take my business to the next level as well because since I no longer have the time to do as much in my business, I will have to hire out key tasks, even if that means lower margins in the short run.
So if you're a dad and are thinking about starting your own business while still being a great father, know that it's very possible to do both, but you will have time for little else. But in the end, it's all worth it."
In a random conversation with my son's basketball coach, we discovered we both shared the same vision. We looked at starting a number of ventures and found that ecommerce would provide the work and lifestyle we wanted. He owns a printing and fulfillment company so we could warehouse and ship product. Now we needed a marketing person. I reached out to a former co-worker who is skilled in digital marketing. The three of us agreed to make a run at this. We invested our own money and launched Lokus Nutrition which sells CBD oil direct to consumers via ecommerce. We got our first order within an hour of launching the website and have been growing steadily.
My advice is to work with a core team that has key strengths. The other functions can be outsourced as work for hires. There are so many sites and freelancers available that starting a company is more feasible now than it ever has been."
When my baby son learned to roll and crawl, diaper changing became a real battle. After he nearly fell off the changing table (twice!) I started changing him on the floor, but then it took two hands for me to keep him still and I had none left to change him. Being at home part-time, I was changing my fair share of diapers and it became a daily source of frustration for me and him which isn’t really surprising when one considers we change our little ones on average 6 times a day or 6,500 times until potty training.
Being a practical, hands-on dad I decided problems are only problems when there are no solutions, so I decided to come up with something. I borrowed a sewing machine, taught myself to sew and over a few nights at my kitchen table stitched together a simple solution that returned diaper changing to the calm, predictable, bonding experience it had once been. Then, talking to other dads, I realized my wife and I weren't the only ones experiencing this problem, so we shared it with other friends and families and so, The Wriggler was born and my Dad Entrepreneur story began.
The Wriggler is the first portable changing pad designed for babies and toddlers who wriggle during diaper changing. Taking it from the kitchen table to a commercially viable has been a heck of an adventure. Finding the right manufacturer, refining the prototype to get the perfect materials and design, going through the patenting process, and putting The Wriggler through extensive testing to ensure it exceeds all of the required safety standards was a long and winding journey. However, dogged determination and patience, along with finding reliable, skilled and trustworthy people who have more expertise in particular areas than I do, has made it all achievable.
Since its launch, the highs have definitely outweighed the challenges. In its short time on the market, The Wriggler is already multi-award winning, receiving baby product awards from two prestigious parenting websites, which is an important validation of the product. The month-on-month revenue growth is a further testament to its place in the market. Perhaps one of the most heartening validations for me is the reviews we receive from real moms and dads who are using it. Seeing pictures of it being used in homes all over the world and hearing that it is a stress reliever for parents and their little ones as it has 'changed their day' makes all of the hard work and challenges faced along this start up journey worth it."
"My top tips for other fathers looking to start their own venture:
I got my BA in Computer Science from UC Berkeley, then took a job at Viasat, Inc., a satellite and networking company based in Carlsbad, CA. After a few years, I found a position as a web developer, and Viasat paid me to teach myself to build web sites. As soon as I realized how easy it was for me to build a website, I started building my own sites for fun, from an online 'wishing well' to an activity tracker. I applied what I learned back to my job, so that I picked up web development quickly, and spread the use of cutting-edge technologies within the company.
After years, I tired of my commute and office environment, so I moved up to Los Angeles, keeping my full-time position but working remotely. In LA, close to family and friends, I got married to my lovely, ingenious wife, and we had a son, whose bright eyes and wide smile light up our life.
In 2017, a friend sent us a Gobble meal kit, and we enjoyed the meals (and the discount) so much that we decided to try every meal kit service we could find. I found 6 such services, and we started skimming all of their online menus to decide which one we wanted to order from each week.
This took a surprising amount of work, and I realized that, using what I know, I could collect all of these meals into a single website, allowing easier comparison. So, I started a new side project: aggregating meal kit menus into one site, which became known as PickaKit.com. Unlike my previous sites, this one had an actual business model - in addition to offering steep discounts, meal kit services pay generous affiliate commissions.
In the 2 years since, I've worked on Pick a Kit when my job and my son allowed, getting invaluable help from my close friend Robert. Together, we built it into what it is today: a combined menu for 8 meal kit services, pages for each service, a page with the best discounts, and a blog with meal-kit-related articles.
It's come a long way, but it's still in early stages, and we believe it can grow much more, as long as we put the time and energy into it."
"My advice to other fathers who want to start an online business:
I am fortunate in that I have a supportive and accommodating wife who really helps me balance being a father with running an online business! I have to be far more mindful when I schedule calls with clients and work very collaboratively with my spouse to help avoid conflict and maximize my daytime productivity. It also find myself putting in additional effort to get more work done in the early hours (before my daughter wakes up) and in the evening (after she goes to bed) to help ensure I am able to balance my work role with my family role!
If I was to offer advice to other fathers looking to start their own venture, it would be this — don’t expect to be able to spend more time with your children just because you are working from home! You definitely need to be more disciplined when working for yourself and you need to be able to clearly separate work time from family time. It’s just not possible to combine the two, even if you might be living and working in the same space. Try to keep a consistent schedule and if you are living with a spouse, work collaboratively!"
My wife was pregnant and I realized I wanted to become a compassionate and engaged role model for my unborn child. When a transit train wrapped in an International Charity advertisement passed by, it was a sign. I immediately began volunteering for them.
Having my first child and being involved in the Nonprofit sector opened my heart to becoming generous — not just with money, but with time and attention. I then built GenerousSolutions, an online platform to help Nonprofits increase their capacity to do good.
Being a social Papa-preneur has inspired my three kids to collect funds (in lieu of presents) for their birthdays, and donate half that money to a charity of their choice (they keep the other to buy one meaningful gift). They have also been able to see that an online business can be financially successful while also being a force for good.
Other would-be Papa-preneurs have the ability to inspire their children to look at business, work and education differently. In fact, I think that might be the greatest gift we can give our kids."
I manage to balance my business and life as a father by keeping the workload at a manageable level and allowing my kids to help where they can. Most of the time, my business day ends when the kids arrive and it's dad time. Some days, I have extra work and need to work a bit longer even once the kids are home. Other days, the kids are home for a PD day or some form of weather-related bus cancellation. When those days happen, we have a TV/playroom set up near the work area. We have also found small tasks that the kids can help with business-wise so that I can continue to work while they feel like they're helping out their dad and spend some fun family time together.
I recommend keeping the more exciting business tasks for when kids might be around. Things that they can observe, learn or possibly help with are great ways to get them involved. Try to have fun things to do available near your work area, as this will allow you to be close but still work as needed. When the kids are home, be more family-focused and less business-oriented. It's important to have a good image and do the job right, but it's also okay if a kid makes a noise while you are on a call or if they pop their head in when you are in a meeting. Home-based or family businesses involve families, and that's okay."
You've probably noticed a few recurring themes — time management is a major one, along with the importance of a healthy balance between work and family life. Another we found interesting is the concept of getting your kids involved in your work somehow, which we agree can be fun and educational for both kids and parents.
We've also noticed that a few of our Papa-preneurs were inspired to start their businesses because of their kids. It's always wonderful to find your true calling, so keep an open mind and see what you discover as you navigate the world of parenthood. You may end up being the next dad to invent an award-winning product that you never would have imagined without your experience of being a father. And even if that doesn't happen, you can still have a successful and rewarding time with your family and business. In fact, from what our contributors have said, your family may become closer than ever before.
We'd like to thank all Papa-preneurs who contributed to this article, and we invite you to share your story with us, too. Happy Fathers' Day!